A Must Watch – The Single Most Important Thing to a Man

December 31, 2016 § Leave a comment


That’s the reaction I had after I finished watching this amazing new video …

The Single Most Important Thing to a Man‘ (link)be-irresistable

One of the hottest new relationship coaches, James Bauer, created this video to explain to women what the single most important thing is to a man in a relationship …

I’m certain that what it is will really surprise you. Not many women know about this proven, simple fact.

Guys really are more complicated than we women think, yet easier to understand than we make it.

After he reveals this most important thing, James then shows you what you can do to trigger this critical emotion in your guy to draw him closer to you and make him almost addicted to you for the long-term.

What I love most about what James explains is that it’s nothing manipulative or dodgy like many other relationships information online. It’s a basic human need that happens to be MUCH more important to men than to women which is why we women so often overlook this…and accidentally send great guys running.

Click to Watch – ‘The Single Most Important Thing to a Man

P.S. Hope you’re getting some special family time over the Christmas / New Year period. We had a lovely time with various family over three days, and our 1 1/2 year old daughter received a crazy number of gifts!

P.P.S. I already tried out James’s advice on my husband and it really worked! Give it a try with your guy tonight…

Click to Watch – ‘The Single Most Important Thing to a Man

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5 tips to keep romance alive in marriage

February 2, 2012 § Leave a comment

Everybody gets married expecting their marriage will last forever. Here are 5 tips to help keep your marriage sizzlin’:

1. Go on regular dates

Keep trying to impress your partner, like you did on your first dates, and acknowledge and praise your partner when they do something impressive. Keep courting each other, even when married! It’s important to come up with things to do together, just like you would with other friends. Your marriage partner is hopefully your best friend, so do things that friends do as well as what partners do. You both still need to grow as individuals even when married, so regular dates also give you the necessary opportunities to keep getting to know one another.

2. Keep some things just for you two

Have special codes, in-jokes, and secrets (preferably not about other people), that are unique to you as a couple. You both need to agree on what things are sacred between the two of you and do not share them with anyone else. These intimate pieces of knowledge about each other and shared histories help create a bond and can be triggers for ongoing intimacy. Your intimacy is diluted when shared with others outside of your relationship. Honour your partner: never kiss and tell – do not even tell your mothers, sisters, brothers or best buddies! « Read the rest of this entry »


January 23, 2011 § Leave a comment

Pride – what a useless emotion when it stops us from communicating!

I remember getting upset at my hubby for some unimportant little thing – maybe he made a mess and went to work without cleaning it up or something. When he got home he could tell I was upset and asked what was wrong. So I told him in no uncertain terms.

He immediately apologised and put his arms around me. At first I resisted his embrace because I told myself I was rightly upset at his lack of consideration for me. But then I realised that

1) he just apologised and

2) I’d rather have him hug me than push him away and stay angry for no reason. « Read the rest of this entry »

To new beginnings, and happy ever after!

January 1, 2011 § Leave a comment

Each new year is like any new beginning, it begins with hope and high expectations. It’s important to hold these high hopes and expectations as a vision for how we want our marriage to be. We just need to know that little troubles happen along the way to strengthen our relationships, not to break them down, as long as we make effort to resolve them.

Happily Ever After doesn’t mean that once you’re married you never have arguments. But having arguments doesn’t mean you’re not able to live happily ever after, either.

Arguments are just one form of communication. We are given the impression from movies and books « Read the rest of this entry »

Avoid an after marriage let-down

December 19, 2010 § Leave a comment

Will you make extra effort with your partner until the knot is tied, but find yourself starting to act “like yourself”, a lazier self, thereafter? Maybe if your perception of the impact of this marriage on your life was different, you might ensure you don’t change your tune to a lesser you. Your impending marriage to the love of your life 1) takes preparation in the manner you mean to go on, 2) requires focus, and 3) is entry into your destiny.

Prior preparation:

The meticulous care in getting ready for a date, the prior planning to surprise and delight your partner, the flirty/doting/attention-giving texts; all are actually promises you are making to your partner about how exciting a mate you will continue to be for them. Your spouse is marrying, according to them, the most good looking, intelligent, fun, and exciting person they have ever met based on this prior experience of you. « Read the rest of this entry »

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