December 19, 2010 § Leave a comment
Will you make extra effort with your partner until the knot is tied, but find yourself starting to act “like yourself”, a lazier self, thereafter? Maybe if your perception of the impact of this marriage on your life was different, you might ensure you don’t change your tune to a lesser you. Your impending marriage to the love of your life 1) takes preparation in the manner you mean to go on, 2) requires focus, and 3) is entry into your destiny.
The meticulous care in getting ready for a date, the prior planning to surprise and delight your partner, the flirty/doting/attention-giving texts; all are actually promises you are making to your partner about how exciting a mate you will continue to be for them. Your spouse is marrying, according to them, the most good looking, intelligent, fun, and exciting person they have ever met based on this prior experience of you. « Read the rest of this entry »